Loving soul and Letting grow

Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you. They are not perfect but are always perfect for you. ~Author Unknown

And there are those Soul-mates who come at you from the adversarial position to force you to grow. They bring out the worst in you --- Your solution is entirely up to you.

Letter to a friend...

Control --- He does because he can...and he will until he can't. There is no easy answer... there is only a point when you have had enough. No right time - no wrong time... your time is your only asset. Whom you choose to spend it with should make you feel as wonderful while you are with them as you do when you are apart.

No deception or mind games. No heart ache. No guilt. No apprehension, worry, frustration, pain. Any who invokes those emotions is wasting the only thing you have limited amounts of.... Your time. It is totally up to you.

He has the same issue. There is no buzz from someone who isn't caught up with him. He needs that and will engage until there is a good enough distraction to pull him away. When that distraction arrives... Say "Thank you," and cut your losses. You will save your life.

Love and light, --------been there........done that. Hated admitting defeat. But when I did lose my broken heart, I won my life back and a better understanding of what romantic Love can be.

Infliction of intentional pain and heartache is something else. And so it goes...

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How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.
~From the movie Annie

I do not begin to imply that my solution is other than what it is... my solution. I can only affirm it was the most loving choice I could live. Rather than staying, sometimes love can only be learned by going. Real love never dies... it merely expands the horizon.

- Without a team effort, relationship becomes a martyrdom. And that can very well be done solo.

- As I could not make the best of the present, I chose to create the best of my memory.

- I allow the most wonderful memories and cast all love lost others to the wind.