Don't Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.
When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering. -
Miguel Angel Ruiz (Click his name twice for a Bio.)
Manifest Dreaming is bringing who you are to life! Claiming your role in creation!
The minute you become aware of a reactive behavior tendency around a certain person, pay attention. Reactions are an auto-pilot response. That insight will tell you where you still have work to do on claiming your self and getting the kinks out of your system.
When we are in a state of flux and working on self acceptance, we can easily be influenced by the projections of others. The sudden shift in our emotion is us (subconsciously) reflecting the person with whom we are in contact. Given the reflection - it is usually best to understand it before shifting anything. Once you have identified how and why you waffle or drift in the presence of the other, then shift to your desired personal set-point.
Emancipated from the riptide of a charismatic (to you) other, your emotions will remain in check and all previous triggers will no longer hijack your broadcast.
That is how others do us a favor and show us where we are still growing into who we are here to become. If we perceive they are stronger or that we are lacking, we shift to reflect that energy rather than broadcasting our own light ... like the wall flower... we shrink back and slip into shadow behavior.
No more. Pay attention to any circumstance that creates that sense of lack. It is not the other or the circumstance at fault - it is you getting a grip on how you create your response to your environment. You can change it when you understand the role you play.No longer swayed to become a mirror for others who inadvertently trigger a sense of lack due to their own insecurity, you are independent and on track to creating/maintaining self confidence. Pay attention. Input - output. You can shift either one or both.
Life is amazing when you become aware of the endless variables over which you have complete control. Set your self free and shift the odds in your favor.